How to Tell if Your Wife is Cheating

by admin on June 22, 2011
My Wife is Cheating

As men we are all under the impression that we are the best man on earth. Well, the fact of the matter is that we probably aren’t. We have faults just like everyone else. Now this is NOT an excuse for ANYONE to stray outside of their relationship, but some think “It can never happen to me.”

Unfortunately it CAN and HAS happened many men and women all over the country. Sad but true.

If you are in a position where you may think your wife is cheating on you then you’re probably begging for some telltale signs, some help and identifiers so you can catch this problem and resolve it.

Here are a few tips that will help you see if your wife is cheating:

#1. If she seems to be more secretive. If she isn’t sharing things with you anymore, like how her day was, or something special or interesting that happened. Women LOOOOOVE to share their feelings and thoughts with their mate, if she has stopped doing that then there may be someone else she is sharing with.

#2. If she doesn’t appear to be so needy. Women are notorious for being needy creatures. We as men adore this because we like to take care of our women, protect them, provide for them etc. If she seems a lot more self-sufficient and just doing things on her own then she probably has someone else taking care of those needs for her.

#3. If her temper seems to be in check. Now we all know females have a temper and that fuse will usually blow if you are late for a meeting with her, or don’t want to go hang out with her friends or any number of womanly things they typically get mad about. If you run around with your friends and she just doesn’t seem to care, well then, she’s probably got her own agenda. Therefor she doesn’t mind if you’re messing up because someone else isn’t.

#4. If she’s less talkative. Women love to talk, we all know this, but what if she has lost her talkativeness? She seems to be turning everything around on you and focusing every conversation to you. She doesn’t want the focus on her, why? Because she doesn’t care to get caught up in the mess with you. She’s already caught up in it with someone else.

If she’s leaving a lot more often. Everyone has their own lives and own things to do but, if you notice her running around a lot more than usual it’s probably because she’s setting time aside to meet with someone before her actual schedule kicks in. Men tend to notice this with business trips. When their woman all of a sudden has trips to go on that she never had before. That’s because these trips are to her bench warmer.

#6. Notice her behavior in bed. This is a HUGE sign that something is up. Is the passion gone? Does she seem to just lay back and let you do what you want? Well, this is because she’s trying to save some face and keep having sex with you, but really it’s a show. She’s already getting all her loving somewhere else.

Unfortunately men deal with cheating wives all the time. These women, or Succubus, tear the lives away from men. Emasculating them and stripping them of love. Hopefully you are not experiencing this but if you suspect your woman might be unfaithful then use these tips and track her down.
Don’t let her ruin or lead your life.

  • http://www.nomarriage.com Shane

    Nice!

  • A WOMAN’S PERSPECTIVE

    I completely agree with you that people should NOT get married, and surprise, surprise – I AM A WOMAN!  Oh, you thought all women were just aching to get married, huh?  Ha, I’m afraid not!  What you’re too dumb to realize is that WOMEN are the ones who are losing out when they get married!  Men take and take and take from women, and they give nothing back in return. Yeah asshole, you think you’re so clever telling men not to get married, but yet it never occurred to you that marriage has absolutely nothing to offer to women! I get so sick of men complaining about women, when men are usually the ones who fucked women up in the first place. So don’t worry your silly little head over thinking that all women are trying to get men to marry them. Believe me, most women these days have wised up to the fact that marriage is a crock of shit. The woman of today has observed that men have created hell on earth, and we don’t want any part of being imprisoned in marriage with a man as our jailer! So keep spreading the word to all the men out there, because it will save us women the hassle of having to keep turning down all those silly men who are so desperate for marriage that they keep pressuring us into “settling down”!   TONS of women agree with this statement: MARRIAGE SUCKS!

    • Guyver

      Wow, you are one stupid fucking asscunt. Do you really expect me to believe anything you say? In a country that is so blatantly anti-male, you think women are the ones who lose out? What fucking fantasy world are you living in? Women like you make me sick, all you know how to do is blame men for EVERYTHING! Yet you don’t know how to accept some of the responsibility yourself. Seriously, grow the fuck up!

      • a PERSON’s perspective

        oh yeah and this country is not “anti-male” just because we’re not forced to worship the phallus. Perhaps if you feel discriminated against you might be, wait for it:
        an asshole?

        • Guyver

          Uh no, you fucking moron, I don’t feel discriminated against. I simply know the truth. Nobody is telling you to worship any phallus, but you have no respect for it being there in the first place. I’m not even talking about just this country, but how do you explain this?

          Divorce Industry Injustices:

          “A man in the United Kingdom received a sentence of ten months for greeting his child on the street.
          Children have been jailed for refusal to testify against their fathers. A seventeen-year- old girl was wrestled to the ground and handcuffed by two male police detectives for refusal to leave her father’s apartment.
          Fathers have been kept away from the bedsides of their dying children.
          Custodial parents are not answerable to anyone for use of child support payments, and need not spend any of it on the children. States use “child support” money to balance their budgets, or for any other purpose they please.”

          Perhaps if you had a clue as to what men had to go through, then you wouldn’t be, oh gee wait for it:

          an uninformed, uneducated, heartless bitch?

        • Guyver

          Uh no, you fucking moron, I don’t feel discriminated against. I simply know the truth. Nobody is telling you to worship any phallus, but you have no respect for it being there in the first place. I’m not even talking about just this country, but how do you explain this?

          Divorce Industry Injustices:

          “A man in the United Kingdom received a sentence of ten months for greeting his child on the street.
          Children have been jailed for refusal to testify against their fathers. A seventeen-year- old girl was wrestled to the ground and handcuffed by two male police detectives for refusal to leave her father’s apartment.
          Fathers have been kept away from the bedsides of their dying children.
          Custodial parents are not answerable to anyone for use of child support payments, and need not spend any of it on the children. States use “child support” money to balance their budgets, or for any other purpose they please.”

          Perhaps if you had a clue as to what men had to go through, then you wouldn’t be, oh gee wait for it:

          an uninformed, uneducated, heartless bitch?

    • Bsoa87

      Thats not true. Its not men fault but Women have don many men wrong. See a women is like treasure. when she mess around she gets a bad name like a whore,but wen a men does he don’t,but neither shouldn’t do it. And marriage is a good thing,maybe people like you should not marry. how can u tell people not to marry. God designed man n women to marry. And yes I myself know women that dont really wanna marry bc of afraid of being hurt well the same goes for some mens. And marriage does have a lot to offer women. You just…im gonna say it in a nice way as I can…like i was saying by what u wrote u must be a women that goes from man to man, bed to bed b/c what women would not want to settled down. the average decent women desire to get married. But i guess thats your op-ion. Nothing personal. Its todays society why some people have a dislike about marriage. Well You can dislike marriage all u want but God made it and thats how it should be.

      • mildly observant

        did God give you a brain? learn to talk/spell/type

    • Benjamin S. Frost

      In the paper today, they asked people what they would do if they only had a year to live. They asked 4 men and 4 women. Three of the women mentioned something sexually suggestive famous actor in their list. Meanwhile one man said he’d like to get married and another man said he’d like to have a child. Not one of the men listed an actress or a porn star or anything sexual in nature. Now, please tell again me why the divorce rate is through the roof….

      • notacheater

        holla at me.

    • orange rhino

      Give back nothing?  Child support is not “nothing.”  Men who are “so desperate for marriage?”  What country do you live in?  Soapoperaland? 

      • Udoli Pixie

         Child support is given after marriage so you’re actually supporting her that guys give back nothing.

      • notacheater

        it’s paying for her to have sex with someone ! Very romantic.

  • Marriage = Evil

    Lets put things in perspective shall we?
    -Lets say you are a Millionaire with your empire being estimated at 20 million (which took you 25 years to make)
    -Now You get married.
    -But you are too stupid to sign a pre-nup.
    -Now lets say after 6 months or one year of your marriage she wants to call it quits, separate, you cheat/she cheats.. whatever..
    - And BAM! Now you are worth 10 million so… to sum up, it took you 25 years to make 20 mill but only 1 year to lose 10 mill. Scary stuff.
    - And God forbid if you accidently got her pregnant during this time.. say heelllloo to child support for rest of your sorry life.
    - Now this example may not hurt the millionaire he might get close to 20 mill at some point… but if your a joe schmo making 40k a year.. ur the one that will get hurt the most.

    • Mrvincemoney

      Amen, bro.

    • Valon

      Your reply sums it all. Frankly, any man who even harbours the thought of getting married should use the money for wedding on an MRI scan instead, its cheaper anyway.

  • mmmmm

    you cheating bastards are fucked up yourselves. you deserve some sweet revenge

    • notacheater

      bitch please !! not all of us.

  • Cpaul50

    What a bunch of f*cking sl*ts!!!! You made a mistake my a*s! When a MAN cheats, its cause we are pigs, selfish, can’t stay faithful, blah blah…but you cheating a*s women can f*ck around till your blue in the face with a stretched p*ssy, taking random cum shots in your c*nt..and its a MISTAKE? OH yeah, cause you b*tches are so innocent right? F*ck off!!!! You girls are some natural born SL*TS, just accept it. You had a boyfriend, you didnt give a f*ck about, you didnt love him enough to keep your eyes from roaming or your sl*tty legs closed, got a firm grasp of another man’s d*ck, and even though you KNEW it was wrong, you still f*cked him AND without a condom, let him c*m inside your sn*tch; risking aids or unwanted pregnancy and THEN, slink back to your husband or boyfriend and f*ck HIM after, KNOWING your sl*t a*s may have contracted some sh*t, or later find out your pregnant. F*CK YOU, you deserve whatever a*s kicking, throat choking beating your man throws at you and you do not DESERVE to have a baby, for what, to f*ck up the baby’s life too? Hopefully someone will take the baby off your hands and raise it right, with love and teach some morals so the kids dont turn out to be a f*cking tr*mp, c*ck sucking, c*m swallowing c*nt like you and any other girl who pulls this sh*t. WH*RES!!!!!
    It is simply unreal HOW MANY girls on here would NOT tell their MAN about cheating or affairs…how sick. It is your MAN that is stuck raising the kids born of your infidelity, your man suffering from the AIDS or STD you contracted and gave him, your man working to pay the rent and take care of you. ANYONE who agrees that keeping silent is the best option, is more than likely stating that THEY too would cheat, and simply are not WOMAN enough to confess the problems and give the man a chance to forgive or walk away. Its amazing how many women are hard wired to cheat and cant stay faithful, YET, they are great at deceiving thier husbands and using them for free housing, food and security. Nothing like having ur cake and eating it too, huh ladies?  Whores!

    • gskeete

      Why don’t you tell us how u really feel. …lol

  • Aikido21

    I read an article describing an research project that was funded in the late 1990′s by health and life insurance companies to establish genetic markers for disease so that they could screen clients and either reject them or charge extra for the higher risk.  They asked existing clients, families with health and life insurance, to give DNA samples for natural parents and their children.  The results showed that 1 in 3 of the children were not fathered by the man who believed he was their natural father.  Interestingly, even the wives thought their husband was the father.  One wonders how many women declined to participate in the study because they were aware that their husband was not the father. This can be explained by the phenomena of sperm competition.

     Also interesting is a DNA study that was conducted by the fish and wildlife service among geese, which are reputed to be monogamous for life.  The exact same ratio, 1 egg in 3, was determined not to belong to the gander guarding the nest of his lifemate.   

    • notacheater

      fucking whores..they’ll rot in hell !!

  • http://www.socialjunk.net/tips-on-how-to-catch-a-cheating-wife/ Remy

    We feel things for a reason, but it’s important to know when you are being over reactive and when you are picking up on some warning signs. If you’ve been cheated on in the past, you may be hypersensitive to small changes and get the wrong impression, so it helps to tackle the situation rationally. 

  • orange rhino

    You left out the biggest one of all: presumed paternity.  In most states, if a married woman gets pregnant, her husband is legally the father.  Period.  No DNA test.  The father even if they have been living apart.  You are the father even if you have had a vasectomy. That is the law and you are out $1 million or so over 18 years. A half million?–okay, whatever.  It is still a cumulative fortune.

    Some married women try to tailor-make their kid, by sleeping with a guy who is taller than you are, better looking, more athletic, a singer, smarter, better hair, you name it.  Whatever you don’t have, she’ll look for it and will take the guy to bed on the first date.  It might not even be a date–just a grab session from the start. 

    My lawyer was great on this.  His first question in the divorce trial was “Mrs Rhino, are you pregnant?”  

    They all cheat sooner or later.  ”Good girls” make up for lost time.  Make sure that when she cheats on you, she’s your girlfriend and not your wife. 

  • miguel

    Keep advantage of the modern technology! Buy her a smartphone and install acell phone spy such as spy bubble and give it to her as a gift. Then you’ll know the truth. it is proven by me…

  • http://www.facebook.com/people/Adeline-Letour/100003406140593 Adeline Letour

    Hello all,

    I think many of you ask yourself, what if i had the password of my friend / girlfriend / boyfriend, associate, life partner, etc. .. to know the truth about your near partner, and reassuring that they do not hide you something.

    You have the right to be reasured !

    For all that are in need of this kind of services We come to your aid, feel free to contact us on our mail for any information, we will be happy to help you

    “Owning the information, means having the power ”

    discovermypass@yahoo.com

  • notacheater

    this country has lost all moral values. Teenagers dressed like whores, fucking on Prom night, dating multiple men, hanging out at bars and clubs to get laid , girls night outs, Las vegas.. list goes on and on..

    How can we fix this ? For starters, Be a strong role model for your children . Teach them some fucking morals and tell them what’s wrong and right. And hopefully, they’ll pass those values to their offspring and so on. Simplicity in multiplicity !!

  • chocoRocco

    LOL What a joke. In other articles, you find nagging, attention-seeking behaviour, and temper annoying. In this one, you think she’s CHEATING if she doesn’t do the previously mentioned behaviors. What do men want???

    I’ll admit, this article is cute <3

  • Really The Truth

    Most women are the biggest Cheaters nowadays, and they are such Losers as well since they can’t Commit to just only One Man Anymore.