Is Your girlfriend Good Wife Material?

by admin on July 15, 2011

Is my girlfriend good wife material? This is probably a question that has crossed the mind of any man who’s been in a long term relationship at one point in time. It seems like such an easy question, but in reality it’s about the hardest question you can answer about your significant other.

Determining whether your significant other is truly significant, or if they are simply the insignificant piece of meat holding your hand relies on a few things. You need to evaluate your partner and really dig deep if need be to answer these questions about her.

Does your girlfriend use sex as a weapon?

Believe it or not there are a ton of women out there who know that we as men want them in a sexual manner, DUH, but, they turn around and use it against us. It’s not fair to us, mainly because we become putty in their moisturized hands, but also because it shows a side of them we may not have noticed. The evil side.

A woman who would use sex against some she claims to care about and calls her boyfriend doesn’t care as much as a wife should. If you see her using your sexual encounters as a tool to get what she wants out of you, well then, have your fun but DO NOT put a ring on that finger!

Does your girlfriend have a serious problem with “typical” woman jobs?

Now at first glance this may seem like a completely sexist statement but in reality it’s not. When you marry a woman you two become partners in crime, two lives becoming one. This means you two should share in the work it takes to keep your lives livable.

If she has major problems with cooking or cleaning or taking care of children, well then she is not anywhere near wife material. If you plan on having a family you need a woman that will take care of the house while you are taking care of the money. Honestly it’s only fair, and if she expects you to be husband, wife, father and mother, then you my friend can do so much better.

Is your girlfriend responsible?

This does not mean ‘does she take out the trash’ if you ask her to. This means can she handle her own life without help? Could she support herself financially without you? She doesn’t have to be Mrs. Donald Trump but she DOES need to be able to stand on her own two feet.

And the reason is because if she is completely dependent on someone else to support her and help her live a life, then she will make a terrible partner. She will forever rely on you for everything. You see this a lot with rich families, the girls go from mommy and daddy’s house, to an ivy league college (not because she was good in school but because mommy and daddy made a hefty contribution) to a boyfriend’s house.

Move on to a more responsible woman, you’ll be much happier.

Does your girlfriend try to control you or change things about you?

You will see this almost on a daily basis, and sitcoms have made millions of dollars making fun of this exact situation. You should be particularly cautious here, because a woman trying to get you to dress up for nice occasions is NOT the same as a woman trying to change who you’ve always been.

Run away, run far, far away and get a girl who appreciates and loves you for you. Honestly, most of the ones trying to change you are unhappy with themselves anyway so they project it on you.

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Biatch

fuck you caveman asshole
No

ding ding ding – looks like your article has brought one of the undesirable women in from the wild. Women who speak like you are not good wife material.
Anon

> If she has major problems with … taking care of children

This is a BIG red flag. If you disagree with raising children, especially her brats from a previous relationship, run far, far away. That’s going to be a source of disagreements and fights.

> Does your girlfriend try to control you or change things about you?

This can be more subtle than you think. I had a girlfriend who /refused/ to let me buy skim milk, even if I suggested that I buy whole milk for her, and skim milk for myself. Why, I do not know.
evilshue

Hey, I’m a woman from the wild! I love this site and agree with everything said here!
p.s- I am a peice of the most premo-marriage material that you ever did see, i do it all and I, do not give a F*CK about getting married! My bf and I have been living together for 2 yrs, and I would never change a thing. I love that he’s got friends and inerests, what? Want him to give up his life to sit home all the time? Listen ladies, the man you marry should have all you want in a man, or just don’t marry him and wait for someone who does! And if and when you do find a worthy husband, why the hell would you try to change him? That’s just crazy talk.
Indy

I’m a married woman and I agree with everything written here for sho! .
Indy

I’m a married woman and I agree with everything written here for sho! .
Indy

I’m a married woman and I agree with everything written here for sho! .
Guyver

The average relationship lasts for about 4-5 years. You are only on your 2nd so enjoy it while you can, because it probably won’t last.
Madi

Wait, wtf?

“If you plan on having a family you need a woman that will take care of the house while you are taking care of the money.”
Then.. 4 sentences later:

“Could she support herself financially without you?”

Two very conflicting statements, you should really get your story straight before you post this garbage on the internet. How could a woman stay home and clean and take care of children all day, and also support herself on her own? That does not make any sense.
http://popanator.blogspot.com Popanator

What I think this trash is wanting is a woman to work 70 hours a week and still keep a clean house and cook dinner. He wants a wife to be the husband and the wife, mother and the father. I screwed up before and married one of those type of bums.
derp herp

what the fuck am i reading? are you ten years old? what the actual fuck??
Ajrocksman

Could she support her self, maybe she doesnt have a job but if she needed to she could support her self. shes responsible n mature.. not a lady that will never work a day n her life even if she depended it.. jeeze im 15 n i get this article.. ppl commenting r the girls that r exactally what men dont like lol.. thats their problem, not the article haha
Anonymous

Well. He makes few points, but you definitely need to choose better wording. What if the woman is the one bringing in the bacon? There are plenty of House Husbands out there.
Anonymous

I agree with the article and don’t think it is garbage. I think some people are taking it out of context and altering what the author is trying to say. Its not conflicting or being hypocritical. It says that she should be able to financially support herself without a mans help. And that is important in a relationship just as a female doesn’t want a man who doesn’t have a job or couldn’t support her and their family. It just shows responsibility if she can support herself and her life on her own, like the point the author is trying to make, she can be independant. If you look at it from the other side, if she couldn’t support herself, what are her values? Does she expect someone to always take care of her? Does she take advantage of people? If a woman can support herself, it shows she has values, responsibilty, hard work ethics, and independance, it gives her valuable character that is attractive to others. Also, about the “typical women jobs” it says right there that the woman takes care of the house and the man takes care of the money, no where in the text does it say the author expects the woman to work a job AND take care of the house. It also says that the two of you should share the work. Once again, readers are taking what the author is saying out of context. Of course circumstances would be different if the woman was the bread winner and the man took care of the house. Its just bringing up a point that typically the wife takes care of cooking, cleaning and caring for the children more so then a man. If you want to have a family one day, this is something a man would look for in a woman, just as a woman would look for certain things in a man before making him her husband or father of her children. I think the women who commented below are offended and taking this out of context. I am a woman and wasn’t offended by this at all. Women have that motherly instinct to care for the home as men have that protective instinct to provide for his family. I know that what I look for in a man is someone who can support me and our family financially, not because I am a gold digger or a materialistic person, but because it shows me that he is willing to stand by his family and do whatever it takes to support them. Just as when he looks for a woman, he wants to make sure she can cook, clean, etc so that he knows his family wont go without being provided for either. When I was growing up, my dad would teach me how to do certain things like spackle a hole in the wall, put together furniture, mow the lawn, etc all “typical” man jobs and I didn’t understand why I had to learn how to do those things and I would say that my husband would do them and he told me that it was important I learned to do them for myself because its not always a definite that a man is going to be around to do them. My father was teaching my responsibility and independance. He told me that if I knew how to do everything on my own I wouldn’t NEED a man in my life and that I could just HAVE one in my life. I think that was one of the best pieces of advice he could’ve given me. Women shouldn’t be offended by this and should try and view it from the opposite sides of what if she didn’t have those qualities, how would it be viewed then.
Drucifer

Not necessarily. Look, if I stand on my own two feet financially as a man, ok, check the 1st box. Now what if I complain and moan every time a light bulb needs changed, a bolt on a chair needs tightened, a car needs washed or repaired or the trash needs taken out. Well, even with box 1 checked, I am probably not good husband material. The only way to run a household is to divide the tasks, especially if both partners are working. If she complains about cooking or cleaning or won’t do them, her home and auto maintenance skills better be good.