Is my girlfriend good wife material? This is probably a question that has crossed the mind of any man who’s been in a long term relationship at one point in time. It seems like such an easy question, but in reality it’s about the hardest question you can answer about your significant other.
Determining whether your significant other is truly significant, or if they are simply the insignificant piece of meat holding your hand relies on a few things. You need to evaluate your partner and really dig deep if need be to answer these questions about her.
Does your girlfriend use sex as a weapon?
Believe it or not there are a ton of women out there who know that we as men want them in a sexual manner, DUH, but, they turn around and use it against us. It’s not fair to us, mainly because we become putty in their moisturized hands, but also because it shows a side of them we may not have noticed. The evil side.
A woman who would use sex against some she claims to care about and calls her boyfriend doesn’t care as much as a wife should. If you see her using your sexual encounters as a tool to get what she wants out of you, well then, have your fun but DO NOT put a ring on that finger!
Does your girlfriend have a serious problem with “typical” woman jobs?
Now at first glance this may seem like a completely sexist statement but in reality it’s not. When you marry a woman you two become partners in crime, two lives becoming one. This means you two should share in the work it takes to keep your lives livable.
If she has major problems with cooking or cleaning or taking care of children, well then she is not anywhere near wife material. If you plan on having a family you need a woman that will take care of the house while you are taking care of the money. Honestly it’s only fair, and if she expects you to be husband, wife, father and mother, then you my friend can do so much better.
Is your girlfriend responsible?
This does not mean ‘does she take out the trash’ if you ask her to. This means can she handle her own life without help? Could she support herself financially without you? She doesn’t have to be Mrs. Donald Trump but she DOES need to be able to stand on her own two feet.
And the reason is because if she is completely dependent on someone else to support her and help her live a life, then she will make a terrible partner. She will forever rely on you for everything. You see this a lot with rich families, the girls go from mommy and daddy’s house, to an ivy league college (not because she was good in school but because mommy and daddy made a hefty contribution) to a boyfriend’s house.
Move on to a more responsible woman, you’ll be much happier.
Does your girlfriend try to control you or change things about you?
You will see this almost on a daily basis, and sitcoms have made millions of dollars making fun of this exact situation. You should be particularly cautious here, because a woman trying to get you to dress up for nice occasions is NOT the same as a woman trying to change who you’ve always been.
Run away, run far, far away and get a girl who appreciates and loves you for you. Honestly, most of the ones trying to change you are unhappy with themselves anyway so they project it on you.