Listen to the Body Language
One problem guys have had since the dawn of time is, really understanding when a girl is into them. Maybe they just don’t know the signs, or maybe they THINK they know the signs but really don’t. Time and time again guys let girls slip right through their fingers because they have no clue whether or not the girl is into them.
And on an even worse note, pursue the girl when she clearly does NOT want him. This turns the females very bitter because all they are thinking is “Why doesn’t he get the picture? I’m NOT into him!” Too many guys have lost friends of theirs because they couldn’t read the signs and ended up making those girls hate them.
However, amongst all the confusion and missed signals there are some things you can tune into to make your entire experience better. Reading the girls’ body language will give you a huge leg up on the competition. Not to mention you won’t have to worry about making any girl hate you.
#1. If she looks nervous, but in a good way. A lot of people may call this kind of feeling “butterflies” in their stomach. Well, if you are obviously making a girl nervous in that good way, like you catch eyes with her and she smiles and looks away, well then that is a sure sign she is attracted to you.
#2. When a girl is into a guy she will tend to lean into him. Whether he is directly talking to her or not she will gravitate towards that guy. Notice if she is leaning in closer when she says something to you, or when you two are in a group does she seem to be heading your way more often than not? If she is then you’ve definitely noticed a sign that she’s attracted.
#3. One of the most obvious but sadly the most overlooked body language signs is simply laughing. Is she laughing a lot with you and not just because you are watching a funny movie? A lot of guys just assume the girl is happy go lucky or a little ditzy which is why she is laughing. Well, those both could be the case in some situations but the fact of the matter is that if she is laughing with you then she is having a good time, and the attraction continues to grow.
#4. Along with laughter, is she laughing at your jokes? Well, you may not be quite as funny as she is making you appear but she likes you and therefor will find certain things more funny. This means that she’s into you so don’t let it go to your head too much. Just because she’s laughing doesn’t mean you should start your new career as a stand-up comedian.
#5. A huge body language sign is when the girl starts touching you a lot. Like when she’s talking she touches your arm, or when she laughs she puts her hand on your shoulder, well then, she’s into you. Now you cannot take this too far and assume simply because she has offered a few friendly touches means she wants to jump into bed with you, although this does mean she’s attracted to you so that could be an end result eventually.
#6. If a girl is looking at you a little longer than normal then she is definitely interested in you. Pay attention when you are talking to her and see if she holds that gaze you two share for just an extra beat or two. If so then she is looking so long because she’s intrigued by and attracted to you.
#7. As odd as it may seem, look at her eyes. Don’t just look AT them, look INTO them. Why are you doing this? Well, for two reasons, the first is that you are giving her attention and not looking at her chest, this is a huge plus for you. The second reason is that a person’s eyes will dilate when they are looking at something they like. If you see her pupils widen as you two are talking, then you are doing good because she’s into you.
Now that you know how to read a women’s body language you will be able to understand whether or not she is into you. This will give you a huge head start in game, plus again, you aren’t going to make any girls hate you because you keep pushing and pushing when she is so obviously not interested.
In case you missed it, make sure to read our first article in the ‘How To Tell If a Girl Likes You‘ series that deals with learning their behavior.