Learn the Behavior
A lot of guys get confused when dealing with women, and for good reason, sometimes females can be just that, confusing! Sometimes guys end up chasing a girl they think likes them but really just wants to be friends, or perhaps isn’t at all interested. There are certain things you can pay extra attention to in order to know whether or not this particular girl is interested in having a real relationship.
Don’t overlook these sometimes subtle tips or you could be spinning your wheels for absolutely nothing.
#1. If she gives you her contact information, her REAL contact information, then you are doing alright. A lot of times a girl will take the guy’s number and what not to basically avoid talking to him. Now if she gives you HER info then that means she WANTS to talk to you and get to know you better.
#2. One huge behavioral factor that will let you know a chick is totally into you is if she brings you around her family and friends. The introduction to the people she cares about says she likes you and wants to include you in her life. This is a huge step and doesn’t mean she’s JUST trying to show you off, which she might be doing as well, but she wants you to know the people she cares about and she wants them to know you.
#3. When a girl is very aware of her appearance around you she is obviously showing behavioral signs that she is interested. Now I don’t mean that she just looks nice and puts make-up on, but rather if she’s constantly fixing her hair or it seems she goes a little extra step or two when she’s around you to really be looking good. She is concerned with her appearance because she wants to be at her best for you, she like you.
#4. A fun little thing you can try to see if she really is interested in you is ask her if she can make you a sandwich for lunch. You may already be asking yourself why but hear me out. If she says no right off the bat then you’ve lost before you began, BUT if she goes and makes you one then you are off to a good start. Now that she has actually taken the time to make you some lunch pay attention to your sandwich. Did it come back with nice sliced meat maybe some lettuce, mayo, onions and some cheese? Or did it come back to you with two dry pieces of bread with some meat slapped in the middle? Depending on which one you get, she is or possibly isn’t interested. I’m sure you can guess which one means she’s interested and which one means she’s not.
#5. The biggest sign that she is truly into you is if she talks from time to time about a future with you. Now I don’t mean a future as in what are we doing next weekend, but more along the lines of plans to move in together or take big vacations a year or two from now. When she is thinking further ahead that means she truly digs you and sees you in her future, and more importantly she WANTS you in her future.
It can be a little difficult to read all of the signs that women throw out there. Whether they be good or bad sometimes it’s just down right confusing. So, next time you’re wondering “Does she really like me?” Just think about these tips and see if you can notice her doing any or hopefully ALL of the above.